I am passing time this New Year reacquainting myself with the game of golf. Often termed by those who play it as the “greatest game” invented by mankind…I have new respect for the various aspects of the game. The only downside is the time commitment it takes to play or practice effectively. Yet, there are so many lessons to be learned from golf…I think it is a key sport that every person should have the opportunity to learn. I also was thinking how so many aspects of golf apply to living successfully in general…so for this year, I strive to apply these aspects of golf as my “New Years” resolutions:
Fundamentals and preparation: You cannot play this sport well without preparation and knowing the fundamental skills of the game. People who succeed in life are usually well prepared (educated) and continue practicing the fundamentals of what has made them successful in the past, copying the attributes of those who have succeeded before them.
Discipline: It takes discipline both mentally and physically to play golf well. Having the discipline to repetitively do the things that repeatedly bring positive results is what makes the difference between those who are successful and those who are not.
Accuracy: Before hitting a ball, you have to know what your target is…in this case a small hole in the ground. It is best to know what obstacles lie between you and the hole and how far away it is so you plan your strategy and know which club to use. Your choices along these lines will determine how accurately and quickly you reach your goal in the fewest amount of strokes (effort) possible.
Mental concentration: The beautiful thing about golf is that it’s not always the best physical specimens that win…but is more about mind over matter. If you don’t have clear mental concentration and control over your body and emotions, the ball will not go where you want it to. Mind controls matter more than vice versa.
Physical shape: The above being said, being in good physical shape does help improve distance and accuracy. Today’s field of professional golfers are paying more attention to their physical conditioning because guys like Tiger Woods and others came into the sport able to drive a ball almost 400 yards. The physical conditioning is important in performing at your maximum potential and for sure to enjoy the fruits of your labors with more vigor.
Imagination & overcoming obstacles: Without imagination, pursuit of life and well-being will be difficult. Daily life brings various obstacles and distractions across our path. Being able to see beyond the obstacle and adjusting your swing to the difficulties life brings is paramount to living successfully.
Spirit of camaraderie and competition: Finally…one of the most rewarding parts of the game is the friendly competition and observing others struggling the same as yourself to reach their goals. Life should be lived in friendly competition and mutual encouragement. It is much more fun to make a good shot in front of friends than to only enjoy your accomplishment alone. I am rich in lifelong comradeship and fellowship.
Whether it is playing golf, pursuing business or living in thriving relationships…may we all be successful “golfers” in achieving our desires in 2013.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!